In this era of competition, everyone wants to get ahead and in such a situation there is pressure on the children to score maximum marks in the examinations. Where you get the desired subject with more marks in 10th, you get admission in good colleges only by better marks in 12th. On the other hand, there are many types of problems when there are less marks. In such a situation, there is a lot of psychological pressure on the children to score more marks.
In these circumstances, if the result of the children is good, then it is okay, but if for some reason the numbers of the children have come down or if they have failed, then do not get disheartened and in such a situation, the parents also have a special responsibility. Such students can go into a state of tension. In view of all this, parents need to take special care of their children as well as encourage them.
Talk to your Child
As much as the children are not sad about their results themselves, they are more worried about the fact that they have not lived up to the expectations of their parents, because the pressure on the parents regarding their future, due to the pressure on the parents about their future. Also gets stressed. According to psychiatrists, it is said that parents should not impose their ambitions on the children and talk to the children. Talking reduces the stress of children and then a new energy comes in them that this result cannot decide their life. Explain to him that there will be many such opportunities in the future to move forward, just work hard by correcting your mistakes.
Do not scold Children
According to psychologists, after the results do not come as expected, a fear sits inside the children. Gradually, he himself becomes a victim of inferiority complex. In 90 percent of the cases, the problem of children goes away by talking. Two loving words from the parents can bring the child out of depression. Even if the result of the child is bad, do not scold him too much and avoid any kind of comment. Instead, motivate him to do better.
Never compare your child’s result with the children of your friends or relatives who have performed better than your child. Every child is unique in itself and the talent and mind of every child is different from the other child. Most importantly, do not criticize the result of the child in front of others. This hurts the child’s self-esteem and he becomes a victim by feeling inferior.
Even if your child’s result is not as per your or the child’s expectations, do not unnecessarily preach to the child that I had already told you, you should have worked harder. Avoid such things. Such things increase the frustration and stress of the child. At this time, instead of making the child a failure by mentioning his past mistakes, there is a need to think about how the child can do better in the future.
Take care of Children
After the results are out, parents should keep an eye on the children. He can also watch games or movies with the child to relieve stress. Pay attention to the change in the behavior of the child after the release of the result. Talk to the child comfortably. Neglect of parents can have a bad effect on children and they may take wrong steps. So try to encourage the child as far as possible.
Understand the Symptoms of Depression
If you have tried everything but still it seems that your child is not able to socialize, the things he used to enjoy or he is not even meeting his friends. So take this matter seriously because it is depression and in this case consult a psychiatrist and keep the home environment better.